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Find a bit of beauty in the world today

September 22, 2024 By Susannah Fox 9 Comments

Find a bit of beauty in the world today

Find a bit of beauty in the world today.
Share it.  If you can’t find it, create it.
Some days this may be hard to do.
Persevere.

– Lisa Bonchek Adams

Today would have been the 92nd birthday of my “third grandfather,” Mitsuru Yasuhara. One of my goals for his final weeks was to spark joy at least once a day. I refilled the bird feeder, since he delighted in watching them feast. I read to him from Swann’s Way, the first volume of Marcel Proust’s epic In Search of Lost Time (the Japanese translation was the one book he requested when he went to the hospital; I read to him in English once we got home).

The most memorable joy-spark was when I brought him a ripe tomato and a sprig of basil from his garden. He smiled as he inhaled the fragrance, first of the bright green basil, then of the red tomato. He surprised me by taking a quick, small bite of the tomato. Though he could not eat solid food, he savored that juicy bite.

When I saw this bee sleeping in a hammock of basil, I was transported to that moment in September 2020, when the fullness of summer could be brought inside for a moment. In Mitsuru’s memory, in Lisa’s memory, please find a bit of beauty and share it.

Image: A bee sleeps in a hammock made by basil leaves.

Filed Under: beauty and wonder, end of life Tagged With: caregivers, family, hospice, Lisa Bonchek Adams

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  1. Rajiv Mehta says

    September 22, 2024 at 12:29 pm

    Lovely. Thanks for sharing

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    • Susannah Fox says

      September 23, 2024 at 7:20 am

      As you know well, we have to celebrate these moments & memories since caring for a loved one can be such challenging work.

      Reply
  2. Diane Mobley says

    September 22, 2024 at 3:49 pm

    Thank you for sharing your glimmer of joy—and reminding me to look for glimmers to share with others! It reminds me of the pleasures I have the opportunity to bring to others when I experience yours…

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    • Susannah Fox says

      September 23, 2024 at 7:20 am

      Love that, Diane, thank you!

      Reply
  3. Lisa Suennen says

    September 22, 2024 at 9:49 pm

    Love this Susannah! And you!

    Reply
    • Susannah Fox says

      September 23, 2024 at 7:21 am

      Back atcha, Lisa!

      Reply
  4. Carla says

    October 9, 2024 at 1:07 pm

    Hello. I was trying to recheck Lisa Adams’ wonderful quote, which led me to here. This is what had her words running through my head. It’s lovely that you carried her adage through the care of your grandfather. xo https://youtu.be/qTj6NUS3o6E

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    • Susannah Fox says

      October 9, 2024 at 1:30 pm

      Oh, thank you for sharing that beautiful rendition of “Knocks Me Off My Feet” by Stevie Wonder (interpreted by the adorable Zachary).

      Reply
      • Carla says

        October 10, 2024 at 3:57 am

        sure!! thanks for reminding me of the quote

        Reply

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